HER - Lesbian Dating App

Contains adsIn-app purchases
3.5
53.1K reviews
5M+
Downloads
Content rating
PEGI 18
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About this app

Her is the biggest (and best!) app for lesbian, bisexual and queer women worldwide. Surround yourself with new awesome friends, go on dates, find local LGBTQ events or just chat away.

Her is the app you and our community were waiting for.


// HER IS:

* THE MOST POPULAR APP FOR LGBTQIA WOMEN. They're all on HER! Get to know every gay & bisexual woman you ever wanted to meet

* CRITICALLY-ACCLAIMED. Loved by critics, press and members alike

* BEAUTIFUL AND SIMPLY DESIGNED. Her feels right

* FRIENDLY. Be yourself and feel welcomed!

* MUCH MORE THAN DATING. Where you read news, find out what’s happening in your city, make friends and ask for advice.

* LOCAL. Meet women in your neighbourhood and attend local events

* GLOBAL. One huge worldwide community


// FEATURES:

* VERIFIED ACCOUNTS. No men, no fakes. Her is a safe space for our community. You know you’re talking to real people

* EASY SIGN-UP. Forget lame forms, use private one-click sign-up with Facebook or Instagram to get chatting

* LIKES. Send one to let her know you want to chat. Quick and no unwelcomed messages

* FRIENDS. Add your friends to stay in touch with them and always be able to message each other

* LOCAL MEMBERS. Use Meet to swipe through other users nearby

* POSTS. Ask a question to the community or tell everyone worldwide what you’re up to

* LINKS. Post, read, watch, listen and comment the coolest queer links and videos you’ve seen today

* QUEER EVENTS. Shared by the community in your area. Parties, meetups, festivals and more

* NOTIFICATIONS. Reply to every like, comment, match you’ve received

* RELATIONSHIP MODE. In a relationship? No problem. Let everyone know you’re only looking for friends and not dating


// ABOUT HER:

HER welcomes every female-identified and non-binary people aged 18+.

HER used to be known as Dattch.
Updated on
9 Sept 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

3.5
52.4K reviews
Anna Supes Ramm
27 May 2025
Pretty basic dating app interface, though I do like that it's geared exclusively toward sapphic folks. One downside is that the bio text limit is pretty short. Also, some features like communities are not very intuitive... and there doesn't seem to be any content monitoring to make sure people don't spam communities with off-topic posts. The breakout feature WOULD have been the friend request option -- BUT I CAN'T GET IT TO WORK. It doesn't appear for me at all. What do I do???
25 people found this review helpful
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HER App
27 May 2025
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. We totally understand that removing Friend Requests can feel like a big change, especially if it’s been a go-to way for you to connect. Your feedback means a lot to us, and we’ll definitely pass it along to the team as we keep working to make HER the best it can be.
Farideh Parsapour
16 April 2025
Very disappointed. My account just got frozen for a merely ridiculous reason: Network connection inconsistency! Unless I've tried several times and sent several emails and waited days, they never responded to me or revived my account. I am truly disappointed. Update: I sent the email. My account is still frozen.
3 people found this review helpful
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HER App
15 April 2025
We're sorry to hear you were having trouble registering with us. Please send our team the information you were trying to use when signing up on support@weareher.com. We'll get back to you soon!
Dana Alink
30 April 2024
I like the concept, but it's not great yet. Considering everything is behind such a high paywall (i mean, the feedback has been clear. Maybe you could reconsider the pricing vs. Which features are free and which aren't) an option to at least not having to hard no or yes a fellow human being before being able to browse further feels very limiting. Some people i just dont know yet. I would love the option to just click them away instead of having to swipe them left or right straight away.
77 people found this review helpful
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HER App
29 April 2024
Thanks for the feedback! We try to keep all important features free - swiping, making & receiving likes, Communities and messaging. We are a small team with limited resources, but we hope you get value and are able to meet someone through all our free features. We will certainly pass the feedback along to the team :)